Please give me a different viewpoint on this situation with my husband and I? - pregnant adult dress up games
My husband joined the Army a year ago. Before that, has not it work. It is not very useful at home. I think he is addicted to the computer. Last night they played for more than six hours. He takes his computer and video games to nothing. Do not pay much attention to our daughter (2 years). Please begin your clothes or even going to play, left in diapers all day and his club in front of the TV. When he was in the army and I did not want the principle that he did not go to school to be accepted, when I learned that he wanted to stay and kick their retirement. Now, push to go after his contract is finished. He says he wants to stay home and care for children (we discovered a few days agowas pregnant). It does not matter, and why change that now? I really think he just wants to sit on your *** and just play all day. I can not imagine any change diapers and ignoring the child while sitting at the computer, which is what he is doing now. I enjoy working, and I want some of the adult company - I was a mother at home for about six months and you're crazy. But I am terrified me that my children are watching TV and to meet my husband sitting there without work for 3 years, will be in vain. As before, I stopped working and let him stay home, unless he has done, and had a lazy day. I completely wrong to think that way? I told him, and he said that if "cleaning and childs have been his work, he would. "Why do not you think?
Friday, February 19, 2010
Pregnant Adult Dress Up Games Please Give Me A Different Viewpoint On This Situation With My Husband And I?
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Perhaps it is chronically depressed. It is a sad life, seem to live. It seems that you both have at least some kind of sex life is good. Television and Internet are both dependent. You need to have a cat and not admit that there is a problem. A number of hours per day for the computer and television and the rest of the time was in other ways (you and / or find a way to spend) will be issued. If that fails, then I tell you, find a job and get the **** of the House and a gain for the family, rather than simply a ***.
Honey, you is the guy is a loser.
How would it be pregnant, not all the time? You're so irresponsible as him, the children in the house of a lazy man, it's her husband.
Just write "Welcome" on the frontside.
Trust your instincts and put their children first. It will not take the initiative when you are alone, and believes that his opinion on this question directly in the money.
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It seems that she married a lazy man ...
Fast forward one or 2 years. They come home tired after a long day at work at her husband in front of the computer and their hungry children, dirty, find out of control through the house and clean them with and to cook meals and care for children. If it is what I think will happen, then made accordingly.
To a Man, Get Off Your Ass and take part in family life.
Dont agree with him staying at home with their parents until they can prove that you need to work.
I do not think that there anything wrong. It seems that your husband is so vague that it wants to stay home with the children so that he can do as little as possible. With all due respect, because he is so lazy, I think it's fair to say that you could say for sure! one parent to stay home and raise children, I go to work. I promise you that deal after a full week thereof, with children and the house is ready to work again. I do not think she realizes how long it will be caring for children, and that all liabilities. Once you have a good taste of it, no more.
Tell him to play computer games very well if it pulls its weight. Set a time limit, either. And made only after KDIS in bed and worked and their homework. Tell him you're cocnerned can form a habit.
A total of 6 hours playing time is too much for a man with responsibility for others.
No way to your children with someone who does not let the do for them.
Games should be the reward you get nothing else to do, not just sit.
The other thing to do is give you a list of tasks. Perhaps they need more direction. Once listed, you can reward.
What can I do with my being more disciplined in order to take the time for the things and the rules for me.
1 hours exercise per day
10 minutesING clean my room
Clean dishes after themselves.
Fold the laundry, even if it not be.
If the dog is an accident immeadiatly own.
Cooks who do not wash dishes.
These things are a kind of self-understanding, but further work for me.
etc.
Its really stupid to some answers from others. The House of the problem with me because I am addicted to computer games. Play more than 40 hours most of the week, so I'm not careful. This is not something that most players that they must support. I had a game (Counter Strike or COD4) to dry my eyes because I'm so much and forget to blink. And it hurts like hell in the morning and are bloodshot and painful.
In any case, I am a father of 3 and have a full-time job and I work 8-5. It is a struggle for me every day when I go home, not go to sit in front of the CPU. I rules for me, I can not play until my children are all asleep, and when my wife asked for a night of film I should (I haven'ttAge movies every night and I). I think my problem is that to say, this can be controlled.
In order to confirm their fears, if you are working, and you can stay at home for their children to be abandoned. Likewise, if you are at home with a drunk and his beer. At least to me. I know it makes me look weak, but that's why I stay home. Unless something really happens in your life that are dependent.
Most men, at best, only half as well as housewives. A drug addict would be much worse.
If you want to e-mail me, I will talk more.
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